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What Is Narrative Therapy?

Narrative Therapy is an approach that looks at the stories we develop about ourselves, our experiences, and the events that have shaped our lives.

Over time, certain stories can become dominant.

You may begin to see yourself as “the anxious one,” “the person who always fails,” “the addict,” “the difficult one,” or someone who simply cannot change.

Narrative Therapy helps create space between you and those stories.

The goal is not to deny what has happened. It is to explore whether one version of the story has become so powerful that it is overshadowing other experiences, strengths, values, and possibilities.

You Are Not the Problem

One of the central ideas in Narrative Therapy is that the person is not the problem - the problem is the problem.

Instead of defining you by a diagnosis, behavior, mistake, or difficult period of your life, we can look at how the problem has affected you.

For example, rather than saying, “I am anxious,” we may explore how anxiety shows up, what it tells you, what situations give it more influence, and when it has less control.

That small shift can make it easier to examine the problem without making it your entire identity.

What Narrative Therapy Is Not

Narrative Therapy is not about pretending difficult experiences did not happen or simply replacing a painful story with a more positive one.

It also does not mean that every problem can be solved by “changing your mindset.”

The goal is to look more closely at the meaning you have made from your experiences and whether that meaning leaves room for complexity, growth, and change.

You can acknowledge what happened without allowing it to become the only thing that defines you.

Related Concerns

Narrative Therapy may be incorporated when working with concerns such as trauma and PTSD, depression, anxiety, addiction and recovery, problem gambling, grief and loss, relationship concerns, life transitions, emotional regulation, and co-occurring disorders.

It can be especially meaningful when a diagnosis, loss, relationship, or difficult experience has begun to feel like the primary way you understand yourself.

Looking for the Parts of the Story That Get Missed

When a problem becomes dominant, it can be easy to overlook experiences that do not fit the story.

Someone who sees themselves as a failure may overlook the times they persisted.

Someone who believes they are incapable of setting boundaries may forget moments when they did advocate for themselves.

Someone who identifies only through addiction may lose sight of the values, relationships, strengths, and parts of themselves that existed before, during, and after substance use.

Narrative Therapy pays attention to those overlooked moments because they can help create a more complete picture.

The Stories We Carry Matter

The way we understand ourselves is influenced by many things.

Family experiences, relationships, culture, trauma, successes, failures, expectations, diagnoses, and messages from other people can all shape the stories we carry.

Sometimes those stories are helpful.

Other times, they become limiting.

You may have learned that you have to be strong all the time, that you are responsible for everyone else, that asking for help means weakness, or that one mistake defines who you are.

Narrative Therapy can help examine where those stories came from and whether they still fit.

What It May Look
Like in Session

Narrative Therapy may include:

Separating your identity from the problem
Exploring the language you use to describe yourself
Identifying dominant stories
Looking for experiences that do not fully fit the dominant story
Exploring values, strengths, and intentions
Examining messages you have received from family, culture, or relationships
Reframing experiences in ways that create more choice
Building a fuller and more balanced understanding of yourself

The work is collaborative.

Rather than me telling you what your story “really means,” we explore it together.

How I Use
Narrative Therapy

I use Narrative Therapy as one part of a broader person-centered and integrative approach.

I may pay attention to the language you use when describing yourself, help separate the problem from your identity, or ask questions that explore where certain beliefs or stories came from.

We may look for exceptions to the story you have been carrying, identify values that are already present, or explore what you want the next part of your story to look like.

Sometimes this work is very direct. Other times, Narrative Therapy simply influences the way I ask questions and how we talk about your experiences.

My goal is not to rewrite your story for you.

It is to help you examine it with more curiosity, recognize the parts that may have been overlooked, and create more room for a version of yourself that is not defined only by what has happened.

Narrative Therapy & Other Approaches

Narrative Therapy can work well alongside:

For me, Narrative Therapy fits naturally with person-centered work because both respect the client’s perspective and recognize that the therapist should not impose meaning onto someone else’s experience.

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